I did everything unpopular.

And yet, my four children have survived and thrived.

I raised my first three babies in California when “crunchy moms” was just becoming a mainstream phrase. I tried to be a part of that tribe - I really did. It didn’t work for me, I found it exhausting, I “failed”, and did so many unorthodox things, and yet…our daughters have thrived.

This taught me a lesson.

When you get old (ish) and start to watch younge…